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Wouldn’t Tithing Less Leave More Room In Your Budget?

February 4, 2010 by 51 Comments

Wouldn’t Tithing Less Leave More Room In Your Budget?

Abdeli asks:

I noticed that you give a sizeable amount in tithes. I am a Christian myself and give regularly but I can’t help but worry that perhaps giving less to the church might make your budget more lenient, say for emergencies and the such. I firmly believe that we should all live within our means and that the Lord will provide the rest. However, I also believe that we play an active role in helping ourselves, saving for our children’s education, etc. I have thoroughly enjoyed reading and learning through your articles."

Many blessings,
Abdeli

 

Tawra: Dear Abdeli,

I need to update the budget to reflect the fact that we do keep $500 in savings for emergencies. We won’t set aside more for emergencies until all our debt is gone. We have some debt from Mike’s video equipment that we need to pay off first. (note: we paid that off in 2006)

No, I don’t think we should ever stop tithing or lower our tithes to save some money. Here’s why:

First, just because we made some poor financial decisions doesn’t mean that it’s God’s responsibility to fix it for us. He can fix it if he wants, but our debt is the consequence of us trusting in the credit cards and not Him.

Second, reducing our tithe is telling God, "I don’t think you can take care of me." God gives us everything we have and as recognition for that, he tells us to give 10% back to Him. It’s the least we can do to give him back the 10% to help others.

Interestingly enough, the people I know who reduced their tithes to fund other things found that their finances were no better off when they weren’t tithing.

It’s contradictory to say say "I can’t help but worry" but then turn around and say but we "if we live within our means the Lord will provide the rest". If you worry, then you aren’t trusting God. The Bible is full of commands for us not to worry. Taking money from God to pay for your kids education (an expense that I don’t believe parents should pay anyway for the most part) or to "help yourself" is not letting him take care of you.

It’s all about trust. We either trust Him or we don’t. In a few weeks, we are going to be coming out with the story of how mom survived on $500 a month. She has a lot of examples of trusting in there and how God did the "impossible". That doesn’t mean that you go out and eat, put your kids in a bunch of activities, and spend what you want and then expect Him to come through if these things cause a crisis. Most people are more than able to have at least $500-$1000 savings if they really wanted to. Even my mom who lives on about $500 a month has that much saved.

Anyway the point is, God asks that we depend on him and not ourselves.

I’m glad that you enjoy our articles! Thanks for letting us know!

-Tawra

Update 2010: We have $3,000 in savings and are debt free except for our house. We are putting everything on it to get it paid off quickly. We hope in 3 years or less. We do have money in our business that we can use for an emergency that is set aside to reprint books.

 

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Filed Under: Budgeting, Featured, Managing Money Tagged With: Budgeting, debt, Saving Money Everyday

Get The Most Money Selling Your House

February 4, 2010 by 7 Comments

Get The Most Money Selling Your House

By Tawra Kellam

A clean neat house can add an additional $5,000- $10,000 to your asking price. Using this method we sold our house in 10 days.

As soon as you find out that you are moving, start getting rid of things you don’t need or use any more. It is ridiculous to move things that are never used to another house. They will merely clutter your space as they did before. Get rid of all of it!!!

To begin de-cluttering, start with one room or one cabinet at a time. Packing while carrying out your usual routine may make it easier. For example, pack the bathroom cabinet while the kids are in the tub or de-clutter a kitchen drawer while you are waiting for something to boil. You will be amazed how fast this method goes.

Get rid of anything that is broken, old or that you just don’t like. Hold a garage sale, it not only eliminates things but can also provide a little cash. The goal is to eliminate clutter so don’t price your items to high! A good rule of thumb is 10%-25% of retail.

As you go from room to room de-cluttering, organize using three boxes: one for garage sale items, one for things to give away and one for trash. When you take a break from organizing, keep the three boxes set up in the utility room or garage so that when you find something laying around you can toss it in the appropriate box.

Keep an extra large trash can set up in the house. You won’t have to empty the trash as often.

 

CLEANING YOUR HOME TO SELL

Clutter is visually disturbing to potential buyers. One of the biggest reasons houses don’t sell is they are cluttered and/or dirty.

When you are trying to sell your house and you will be showing it to potential buyers, pack up things that you only use occasionally. Stack all your packed boxes in the garage or the corner of a room. This NOT the time to make your house comfortable for you, but attractive to sell.

After you have de-cluttered, it is time to DEEP CLEAN.

KITCHEN – Clean the sink, stove and refrigerator. Don’t forget to clean the fronts of your cabinets. Wipe fingerprints off of everything, including walls and light switch plates. Remove as much as you can from the counter tops. Make sure that the space under your kitchen sink is clean because everyone always checks the plumbing under the sink. Sweep, mop the floor and empty the trash.

BEDROOMS – Make beds, pick up clothes, clear off dressers, end tables and other furniture. Dust, vacuum and make sure closets are uncluttered, neat and clean.

BATHROOM – Put away (meaning in a box or drawer out of site) all bathroom items including makeup, shampoos, baby toys and toiletries. Clean the sink, tub and toilet. One trick I learned while cleaning houses professionally was to take a soft cloth and dry everything well, to prevent water spots. It is especially important to shine the metal fixtures. Clean under the sink, empty the trash and wipe off light switch plates. Mop the floor. As in the kitchen, the less clutter you have, the better. Keep one nice set of towels handy that you can put out when you are showing the house.

LIVING ROOM – Remove all unnecessary items that are laying around on the furniture including toys, magazines and newspapers. Remove all pictures and accessories that are not adding to the decor of the room, either pack them or garage sale them. Dust (don’t forget to dust the pictures on the walls) and vacuum.

GARAGE – Don’t overlook the garage! Make sure things are neatly placed and sweep the floor. Place all items in boxes if you can. Neatly stacked boxes give a better impression than piles of stuff.

Continue going through each room using the same basic ideas.

If your carpets are dirty be sure to either rent a carpet cleaner or have them professionally cleaned. Seeing all kinds of carpet stains from kids is a big turn off to potential buyers.

 

SHOWING YOUR HOUSE

Keep a basket in each room so that you can quickly throw things in it when you have to show your home. This is particularly useful if you have children and you usually have toys on the floor. Hide the basket with a nice blanket.

Don’t leave open trash cans sitting around.

Turn lights on in every room including the garage. This will make the house show better.

In a potpourri pot or pan, simmer some cinnamon with either or all of the following: ginger, nutmeg, or cloves. It is best to stay away from strong scented candles with berry, apple, peach or other similar smells because some people find these scents overpowering and unpleasant. Most people do however like the smell of cinnamon.

 

IF YOUR HOUSE IS VACANT

If you are leaving your home and it will be shown vacant, here are a couple of ideas to help make it show better.

Take a few small terra cotta pots and fill with 2 or 3 stems of silk geraniums. (Geraniums aren’t necessarily my favorite flower but the bright red color works great for this purpose). Place them in several different corners of the house. A couple on the kitchen counter, one on the back of the toilet, or counter in the bathroom, a corner of the living room or on the mantle of the fireplace.

Place a bouquet of real looking silk flowers and small bowl of potpourri in your entryway for people to see when they first walk in. First impressions are very important.

Don’t get carried away by making the house look like a florist shop. It takes just a couple of splashes of color here and there to really warm up an empty house.

From Dig Out Of Debt

 

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Pay Off My Car or Put the Money in Savings?

February 3, 2010 by 2 Comments

Mike from Manitoba, Canada asks:

“I have been trying to live more simply, and would like to become debt free so that I will be more free to make changes that reflect my new goals in my life.

Last year I bought a new car. At the time I was already thinking about maybe giving up my old car and going without. Then my best friend bought a new car and I got caught up in the old “New Car Fever”. I have enough money in Savings to pay it off. The interest on the loan from the dealer is 2.9%. Should I put my savings into investments, or pay off the loan?

I really don’t want to be a slave to my job (which I am not really happy at) for five years just so I have money coming in to pay off the car. What do you think I should do? I could sell the car, but then I’d be losing 30% of my investment and that doesn’t make sense either. I would really appreciate your advice in this matter.”

Hi Mike. There are two ways to look at this. First if you have money in savings and it’s making more than 2.9% then it’s silly to pay off the car when you could be earning more money with it in savings or investments. Most savings accounts earn a minimum of 4% so you would actually be earning money by keeping the car payment and putting the money into savings instead.

But….. If you hate your job and want to quit and paying off the car would put you in a position to do that, then I would pay it off.

You’re looking at all wrong. Right now if you have the money in savings to pay it off you aren’t working to pay for the car but you are working to build up your investments. If you hate your job that much, save up enough for 3-6 months to pay for your bills and then you can look for another job.

Sounds like you are doing a wonderful job to me!

Tawra

From: Dig Out Of Debt

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Always Weigh The Cost

February 3, 2010 by 2 Comments

Always Weigh The Cost – Home Theater Heist
By Michael Kellam

To the reader: I wrote this story in 2000 to illustrate why it is important to weigh the cost of items before buying them. I know that some of the prices may not reflect today’s prices, but if you read the entire story, the thought process still applies.

Have you ever thought that some particular purchase would save you money? I often hear people talk about how they can save money by purchasing something that will save them in other ways. A good example of this is a custom home theater system. Many of my movie buff friends, awed by snazzy displays in electronics stores have convinced themselves that there is virtually no cost in this type of purchase. After all, it is difficult to find a first run movie theater that sells tickets for less than $6.50 each and many are substantially more. Surely, they reason, at say $8.00 per ticket, they would save money purchasing this system that attempts to approximate the theater experience. Is this really the case? Let’s weigh the cost!

One particular friend purchased his system in stages. First he purchased the large screen television for a cost of around $2000. Then he purchased a mid range stereo system including a DVD player for another $2000. For these prices, surely the stereo would include speakers, but says my friend, that is not the case. He spent another $1500 purchasing speakers and a sub woofer because he likes the bass. My friend was telling me how he got a great deal because he purchased several of the components at once. He asserted that he “saved” several hundred dollars on the equipment and that the entire system would pay for itself since he would no longer incur the cost of seeing theatrical releases.

Considering his assertions, my curiosity got the best of my and I began crunching numbers. I added his equipment costs and figured that his system cost $5500.00. At $8.00 per movie, that means he would have to watch 688 films on his home theater before it would pay for itself. Not bad, you might think. He might see that many films in two years if he watched one every day. Of course, this assumes he is watching films that he would have seen in the theater but chose to view them on his home theater instead or else he wouldn’t be saving money. My friend found that even with his home theater, he did not want to give up theatrical movies all together, so maybe it would take a little bit longer for the system to pay for itself.

What my friend never figured into his numbers was that he was going to have to have DVD’s to watch on this new system. At the purchase price for DVD’s, suddenly it would be cheaper for him to watch a movie in the theater. His system could never pay for itself. My friend decided that he would instead rent the DVD’s from the local video store, where DVD’s rent for about $4.00 each. If all of the DVD’s he watches are rented, he only saves $4.00 over the price of watching the film in a theater. This means that we have to do the math all over again. Now for the system to pay for itself (dividing the $5500.00 system by the $4.00 savings), my friend would have to watch 1375 movies for the system to pay for itself. He would have to watch at least one movie every day for close to four years before the system pays for itself. Now my friend is serious about movies, but lets face it, one movie every day is a lot of movies.

My friend never considered that after a couple of years, the technology would be so much better that he would want a new one. Sure his system was great, but look what they have now. Still, the system has not paid for itself so he must press on. He never considered that if he had simply paid the eight bucks to see a theater movie every day that he would be $3000 ahead at this point and not in hock for this stupid home theater. Heck he could have gone to the theater AND bought popcorn every day!

What makes it worse is that my friend bought his system at one of those electronics stores with the 1 year same as cash. How can you beat that – no interest! What he didn’t know was that if the balance isn’t paid off by the end of the year, that the company charges all of the interest back to the date of the purchase as if it was never “same as cash”. To add insult to injury, the credit company charges 29% interest on purchases. That means that in addition to the $5500.00 my friend paid, he also has to pay $1595 PER YEAR interest until it is paid off. If he only pays the minimum payment of $150 per month, it will take him 91 months (7 ½ years) to pay off the system. The total cost of the system is then $13647 including $8147 in interest. This means that including the $4.00 savings per movie, he will have to watch 3412 movies before the system pays for itself. That is a heck of a lot of movies. If my friend watched a movie every day, it would take him more than nine years for the system to pay for itself. In this case, my friend could have paid full price to watch movies every day at the theater for more than nine years. In fact, the system is not really paying for itself if my friend would not otherwise have actually paid the $8.00 every day for nine years to see that many films. It also does not take into consideration that most people see at least SOME movies in discount theaters. If my friend would have seen a film in a discount theater, he would actually be spending more for each movie he chose to view on his home theater.

What I have not mentioned here is that my friend works a job that pays him $20,000 per year. If he pays cash for the system (NOT using a credit card), he will have had to work over three months for no other reason but to pay for his home theater. If he uses a credit card, he will have had to work for more than 8 months to pay for the system. Now, I don’t know about you, but if I could take 3-8 months off of work and still live at the same standard of living, I would rather do that than go to a job and work more for someone else so I can “save” money purchasing a home theater that might not pay even for itself for nine years.

I am not saying that home theaters are bad. I am simply saying that you should carefully weigh the cost of something before you purchase it, considering all things that affect the price. I personally would not purchase such a system when I can see a film in glorious Technicolor on the big screen as it was meant to be seen (in 2.35:1 wide screen of course). If you feel that it is worth it to you to spend the money on such a system, it is your prerogative to spend it on whatever you wish to spend (keeping in mind that you must want it more than that other thing you can’t afford after you have bought it). So go enjoy the movie! And say “Hi” to the ticket taker for me!

If you need help trying to figure out how to weigh the cost of things you’re considering buying, you might want to check out Dig out Of Debt and learn more about how to keep more of your money.

 

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Paying Cash For A Car?

February 3, 2010 by 20 Comments

Paying Cash For A Car?

Elaine From Massachusetts asks:

“Given the fact that more people are traveling further for better paying jobs — How does your concept of purchasing a car cash apply? I travel a total of 100 miles a day round trip for work. Travel time is about 1 hour 15 minutes peak times and when it snows it can take over 2 hours. YES, a new job closer to home would be ideal but close to home does not have anything but small mom/pop stores and Wal-Mart / gas station/ Auto Zone/ Home Depot/ Sears…. no big companies that pay like HP, EMC, 3Com or Verizon. The current truck I am driving has 250,000 miles. It is TRYING to make it through the winter.. Help!”

 

Mike: Hi Elaine,

We try to purchase used cars in good shape for cash. Generally, we shoot for around $5000 for a car with 50K miles or less. We have not always had the cash, and in that case, we’ve bought the $5000 car using a zero percent credit card. We don’t recommend that because you still have to pay for it eventually and using credit just delays the inevitable. If you do use credit, I’d still bite the bullet and pay it off as fast as you can even if you get a no interest loan.

Regarding your question about long traveling distances, there are only two options that we can see. Either expect to pay a lot for traveling expenses or move home and work closer together. We used to live in a remote area in rural Idaho. I drove 100 miles each way to work and it was 70 miles to the nearest town where we could go shopping. There weren’t many places to work in the town of 400 where we lived and most of those paid only minimum wage. Eventually, we had to move to a city where we were closer to jobs.

If all of the workplaces are far from home and the shopping is far from home, it seems like the easiest way to reduce traveling costs is to move closer to the city where you work.

Alternatively, you could develop a web business or some other home business, but beware that web businesses take just as much work as any other business and take time to set up before they make money. The “up” side is that if you’re living in a house that has been in your family for 7 generations, you can keep your house and also reduce your traveling cost.

I may have misunderstood the question, but whether or not you have a new car does not seem relevant to your driving distance. If you want a more fuel efficient car, you can buy a gently used car with cash and be way ahead on your costs rather than buying a new car. When we did the math, we figured that buying a brand new car to save money was not a good idea. If you want a new car and you are willing to pay for it, go ahead and get one. If you don’t need to save money and you really want the car, that is a choice that you are free to make.

As far as costs, though, consider this: If you buy a new car for, say $25,000, you will pay substantially more than the $25,000 cost if you get a car loan (because interest and fees add additional cost). If the new vehicle gets gas mileage twice as good as a $5000 used one, the amount you spend on the price of buying the new car will far exceed the amount of gas money saved over the life of the car, not to mention the higher insurance and license tag costs.

If we were in your situation, I’d start looking for a good deal on a used car in good shape that I could hopefully buy with cash by the time the truck goes to truck heaven. If you look at a lot of cars and if you check them out carefully, you can get a better deal than you might think. If you don’t know anything about cars, enlist a friend who does to check it out for you. When you think you’ve found “the one”, you can pay a mechanic to check it out for you to make sure it is in good condition. This usually costs around $50.

For us, we would continue to buy used cars if our income was higher and then use the extra money to pay off any debts or invest the savings in something permanent like real estate.

Just to be clear, don’t feel like you need permission to buy a new car if you want one. If you can afford a new car and are prepared to pay for all of the costs, go ahead. Our point is that financial matters are all in a balance and in order for everything to work out, all of the money you spend has to work out to less than all of the money you bring in.

If you do decide to buy a car new, don’t make that decision based on the fact that a car salesman says you can get a loan. Make sure you do the math and feel comfortable with the cost. The salesman wants to make money and it’s not his problem if you have trouble making your payments.

I hope this helps!

      -Michael

For more easy and practical ways to save money and get out of debt, check out Dig out Of Debt and learn more about how to keep more of your money.

 

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When Should You Buy A Newer Car?

February 3, 2010 by 6 Comments

Michael from Wilmington, NC asks: When should you get rid of an old car that is paid for and buy a newer one that would hopefully have less maintenance cost. I am assuming the new car would be paid for outright without credit expenses.

 

Michael Answers: That is a good question. We recommend buying cars outright with no credit debt and then driving them until they die completely or until it is no longer practical to keep them. When we buy cars, we like to pay cash and we generally pay $2000 to $6000 for the newest low mileage used car when can find. Our last two "new" cars were a 1991 Buick Skylark we bought in 1998 with 50,000 miles for $2500 and a 2000 Ford Taurus station wagon with 59,000 miles we bought in 2004 for $6000. We paid more for the Taurus because it was only four years old, it was in really good shape and we thought it was worth paying a little more for the car Tawra and the kids would be using regularly. (We also hoped it would last a little longer than some of our previous buys).

When we buy a used car, we usually choose well enough that it needs very few repairs in the first year or two. Generally, we expect to pay regular maintenance costs (new tires, oil changes, brake pads, etc.) no matter what car we drive, so we usually don’t count those expenses as "repairs". We will continue to drive the car, making regular repairs until we begin to get the sense that its life span is coming to an end. When we do have to make repairs on a car, we consider it reasonable to spend several hundred dollars a couple times a year to keep it going. This might include replacing a water pump, doing major brake work or general engine work.

Usually, a catastrophic repair (like a new transmission or a new engine) is the death nail for one of our cars since our purchase price for a replacement is usually low. Occasionally, we will fix a catastrophic repair if the car rarely needs work and if we have not had the car very long. Here’s an example where we did that:

Once we received a used car as a gift from family after I crashed a car on an icy road. Two weeks later, the transmission failed. Since the car was new to us, didn’t cost us anything and seemed to be OK otherwise, we went ahead and spent $2000 to fix the transmission.

Most of the time, a car needs only occasional repairs, but over time, the frequency of repairs increases. When it seems that the number of repairs is on the rise, we try to figure out whether or not we think it is a trend. If so, we think of the car as "on its way out" and stop making unnecessary repairs. If we have decided that a car is "on its way out" and it requires a single repair over $500, we will usually consider it dead and replace it. If the car that is a short timer needs several lesser repairs over several months that begin to add up to a lot of money, we will usually get rid of it and get something else.

We had a 1991 Buick Skylark that was a good car for a long time. We originally bought it for $2500 in 1998 when it had 50,000 miles on it. Until 2004, it needed only occasional repairs, so we didn’t feel too bad if we had to put $300 into it from time to time. In 2004, the repairs seemed to come more frequently and we began to think that the car would need to be replaced soon.

We still continued to do regular maintenance, but avoided spending a lot of money on repairs that were not critical. We got a crack in the windshield that was a little bit annoying, but since it was only around the edges and Kansas law did not require us to replace it, we decided not to repair it at the time. Again, we were pretty sure the car was on its way down hill. The heater started to occasionally smell like anti freeze which made me think the heater core was going to fail in a year or two. We started to notice that the paint was peeling from the rear fenders, but because we didn’t think the car was going to last a long time, we decided not to re-paint the car. We still made some regular repairs, but eventually, the car had a brake failure that was difficult to put a price on. We had already spend $500 in the previous 3 months for regular repairs above general maintenance and it appeared that the brake problem could cost another $300-$400. At this point, we decided that the white car had exceeded its useful life, since we would have spent $900 in just a few months if we repaired it and we would still have had a car with a cracked windshield, a dying heater core, peeling paint and other problems that we had not yet discovered.

You will want to consider where your car is in it’s useable life. If you want to keep your expenses low, always remember that a car’s basic purpose is to get you from place to place reliably. You can keep more of your money if you’re not driving the car to impress other people. We usually try to keep the cars looking presentable, but we normally go for clean "plain Jane" cars that run well. All major systems should work well. We live in Kansas, where the temperatures are often over the 100° mark in the summer, so we think that Air Conditioning is a must. When we lived in Colorado, we considered it more of an "option".

When it is clear that a car no longer fulfills it’s basic purpose: to get you from place to place reliably within a reasonable budget, it’s time to get another one.

You are wise in considering a newer "used" car when you replace an older car. Usually, you get the best buy on a car that is new enough to need few repairs, but old enough to be relatively inexpensive. You have to shop around to make sure that you find a good used car with no signs of trouble and it is wise to have a mechanic check it out of you don’t know much about cars.

We try to stick to cars with 60,000 miles or less that appear to have been well maintained and cost between $2000 and $6000.

 

For Readers considering buying "New":

Brand new cars cost more than they are actually worth, so it’s best to let someone else take the financial hit of being the first buyer of a car. Some people buy brand new cars expecting to "save" on maintenance costs and repairs, but all cars require occasional maintenance and repairs and parts for new cars tend to be more expensive.

The "white car" cost us $2500. We drove it for 8 years, so it cost us $312.50 per year. We averaged $300 per year for repairs, so our total cost for the car was $612.50 per year. Thats PER YEAR, NOT PER MONTH. A similar car purchased new costs $446 per month. That is $5352 per year or $26,760 after five years of payments. Buying used, we saved $4852 per year or $24,260 for the entire cost of the car.

If you still think the new car is worth it, don’t forget that the new car will cost you more in insurance and registration fees and after two years, you will probably be putting money into repairs on top of your monthly payment. It’s something to think about.

 

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Don’t Buy In! Part 3

February 3, 2010 by 7 Comments

Don’t Buy In!, Part 3
Read part 1 here and part 2 here.

 

So What’s the point, you ask? What can I do about it?

  • Don’t buy in! Don’t listen. Reduce your exposure to a runaway stream of information. Don’t just rock along in auto pilot. Think about what you’re doing.
  • Any information going through your mind that isn’t relevant to your life merely causes mental clutter which causes stress. If you’re stressed, chances are you have this problem.
  • Turn off the news! You don’t need to know every detail of what is going on in the world. I have found that not following the news has greatly reduced the stress in my life. Yes, it is sad when a child drowns half a continent away, but unless I know the child or his family or unless it is reasonable to think the same will happen to my child, why do I need to know? It is just a cause for needless stress. It is important to be informed before you vote, but you can easily do some intentional research about the candidates shortly before an election rather than follow the daily barrage of news coverage.

    "What if something happens that I really need to know about?" You will always know people who will tell you things you absolutely need to know. On September 11th, my brother in law called to tell me to watch the news. Keep in contact with your neighbors. If something happens in your neighborhood, they will tell you. Then, if you want to know the details, go to the most reliable source of news you can find and seek out only that story.

  • Don’t watch so much television. This is important especially if you watch a lot of high stress television. Police crime dramas, abrasive TV talk shows and "He Said, She Said" reality shows will raise your stress levels. Too much of any kind of television time bleeds away hours of your life that you may later wish you still had.
  • When you feel the urge to buy something, stop and ask yourself if you’re being brainwashed or if you really need that thing you want to buy. Chances are if you have to have it RIGHT NOW, it’s an impulse buy. Put it off for a while. Weigh the value. I have found that if I delay a purchase, I almost always realize that I don’t need or really want it.
  • When someone tells you something that seems important, don’t just believe it, especially if the information causes you anxiety or has some impact on your belief system in general. If it is important, verify the information with a reliable source. I wish I had done this more in college, when I for a time believed unquestioningly the lies that some professors told me, even while they encouraged me to challenge beliefs for which I actually had solid evidence.
  • Don’t "surf" the Internet because you’re bored. When you go to the Internet, make sure you have a purpose: You want information on a particular topic or you want to play a game or buy a song that gives you encouragement. If you just surf, though, you are just finding information to clutter your brain which will compound your stress.
  • When too much information causes stress, it is expensive. Stressed people usually smoke, eat too much, develop various addictions or simply seek medical attention that they may not have otherwise needed. All these things cost money that stress free people don’t feel compelled to spend.
  • When too much information causes stress, it adversely affects your health. Spending the majority of your time under a high degree of stress leads to all kinds of medical problems that make life unpleasant and will probably lead to an early death.

 

Is it really that important to be "plugged in"?

 

Update: Reader Question – Why are there ads on this site?

Originally, this story ended here, but we received a couple messages from readers who found it strange that there would be ads in a story that speaks to the down side of advertising. We wondered before we published it if the story would generate some letters to this effect. Here is a little clarification for those of you who wondered:

Advertising itself is not "bad". Advertising does serve to inform consumers who may be interested in purchasing a particular product that the product is available. That is why I said that you need to consider the value of something before you buy it. Is this something that is really going to make your life easier, save you money, or give you some real enjoyment in life? The point is that you have to be careful that you don’t let advertising direct your every decision in life.

If people have information to share, whether it is news, information about products or simply an idea they’re trying to promote, it is perfectly OK for them to try to get that information to the public.

People need to make money in their businesses. Advertising is a good way for them to do that. It is unrealistic to think that a company will be able to provide things for "free" if there is no way for them to get paid for the time and resources required to do the work. Not many of us would devote a significant portion of each day working hard for free when there are bills to pay.

It is self destructive for you to purchase things that you don’t need with money that you don’t have. When you purchase something out of fear, envy, anxiety or anger, you’re not buying it because you need it. It won’t solve your emotional problem. It will just make things worse by increasing your debt and cluttering your life with things you don’t need.

The next time you think about buying an item, ask yourself, "Do I really need this? Will this item really improve my life?"

 

Now… If you’d really like something to help you change your life , may I suggest a great cookbook? 😉

 

A reader’s response to this story:

"Hi! Just a note, where I live (Folsom, CA) the Albertsons grocery store installed TELEVISIONS at the check out line that was streaming advertising disguised as helpful information, but selling groceries! It never ends!" Lisa M

 

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Filed Under: Managing Money, Saving Money Everyday Tagged With: Budgeting, debt, Saving Money Everyday

Don’t Buy In! (Part 2)

February 3, 2010 by 1 Comment

Don’t Buy In! (Part 2)
(Read part one here.)

TV ads are, as a whole louder than ever, often using fast paced tense music to make you feel like there is an urgent reason you need to watch this commercial. Even though there are laws designed to prevent television broadcasters from playing commercials louder than shows, commercial producers know how to mix the audio in such a way that the commercial sounds louder without appearing louder to the broadcast equipment. Have you ever noticed that many commercials have the sound of a telephone near the beginning, even if a phone doesn’t play any part in the "story" of the ad? That’s because production companies know that the sound of a phone ringing will cause most people to unconsciously respond with urgency to the ringing of a telephone.

Even magazines are in business to sell you advertising. Oh I’m not talking about the tabloids with "too good to be true" advertising that is so obvious to most of us. I’m talking about the magazine where you read a story about some new gizmo that the "reviewer" in the magazine seems to think is the greatest thing out there. Many of the magazine articles that appear to be written by impartial reporters singing the graces of various products are actually advertisements, commissioned by the companies that sell those products, written by advertising agencies and provided to the magazines as "stories" designed to make you think that some regular Joe out there liked the product so much he just had to recommend it to you.

If you still haven’t heard enough, think about the news. When you watch, listen to or read the news, do you ever ask yourself whether or not the information that you are getting is true? Most people never question the news. If you’re in your mid 30s like I am, you have probably heard that news is impartial, that reporters are supposed to report the news without interjecting their own opinions. That’s what the editorial pages are for, right? Though this would be a great way for the news to work, it is not the reality.

Recently, there was a story on the news at one of the major stations here in Wichita called "Family Fears Africanized Bees Could Be In Kansas". The story told of a family in Southern Kansas that thought a hive of bees in their back yard might be killer bees. According to the news report, the lady that was stung had been close to the bees before and had never been stung until the date of the story. Because the lady got stung, the couple assumed that they "may" be killer bees. The news report implied that this was a reason for concern for people in Kansas with this new threat. The reporter did not put an expert on camera attesting to the likelihood that they were killer bees. There was nothing in the story to suggest that the bees were killer bees except that someone got stung. Wow, does that mean every time I’ve ever been stung by a bee that it was a dreaded "Killer" bee?

Come to think of it, why are killer bees called "killer"? When we lived in Texas, the news talked about "killer" bees coming to Texas. Now, more than a decade after the killer bees arrived there, I wonder why there aren’t thousands of people falling victim to this deadly plague. Considering how few people die from killer bee stings, I wonder why the media doesn’t do more stories about being killed by meteors falling from the sky. Still, there are many people who get stressed out seeing stories like this on the news for no good reason.

I say all this to make the point that news operations make their money from advertising and in order to keep you watching, newscasters have realized that it is easiest to keep you watching when you are constantly afraid of what will happen if you don’t see the news today. Just like with advertisers, people in the news business are trying to sell you something. Because of this fact, you only see the news that is likely to make you want to keep watching and to tune in for every newscast. This means that you get a distorted view of the real world because of "selective coverage" that tends to portray the world as a place with dangers waiting to attack you with every decision you make in life. Also, because many reporters are young with very little practical life experience and because reporters have only a few hours to develop the story, broadcast news is full of errors.

The bee story is a great example because many people hear a story on the news and begin assimilating the information as if it is factual. Even if you are a reasonable person, repeatedly hearing someone profess ridiculous things can make you question what you believe. Joseph Goebbels, author of the Nazi propaganda campaign against the Jews said that "if you tell a lie often enough, it eventually becomes accepted as the truth."

There are all kinds of other circumstances where people are trying to sell you something: The college professor who misleads his students because the real facts don’t support his political agenda, the auto mechanic who tells you the wheel is going to fall of your car if you don’t pay him $500 to flush the radiator, the electronic store representative who tries to sell your grandmother a high end stereo VCR when you have told him that she only has a 13 inch television that doesn’t put out stereo sound and on and on…

Read Part 1   |   Part 2   |   Read Part 3 – What Can I do about it?

 

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Filed Under: Managing Money, Saving Money Everyday Tagged With: Budgeting, debt

Don’t Buy In!

February 3, 2010 by Leave a Comment

Don't Buy In! How To Avoid The Trap!

Don’t Buy In! How To Avoid The Trap!

Did you know you need a new cell phone? Did you know your car is trash? Did you know you’re not pretty enough, you’re overweight, you wear outdated clothes, you need to eat healthier and you need two large pizzas? If you didn’t know that, brace yourself because that’s just the beginning of your troubles — or so say the messages bombarding virtually every one of us every day.

Do you realize how much advertising you are subjected to each day? There are ads on television, ads on the radio, ads on the Internet, ads in the paper, in magazines, along the side of the road and on other vehicles. There are ads in virtually every business you walk into each day and there are ads all over your house. The next time you go to Wal-Mart, pause at the front door and take a careful inventory of all the advertising you are exposed to in that one location. There are hundreds, possibly thousands of print ads competing for your attention there. Wal-Mart radio plays a constant barrage of advertising trying to influence you to buy something. Many of the items available for purchase practically cry out to you to purchase them through advertising on the packaging. Even if you are the queen of frugality, you cannot help but be influenced by this daily barrage of advertising.

What many people don’t know is that the basic purpose of advertising is to persuade you to buy something you didn’t know you needed before you saw the ad. The message isn’t usually, “Hey, if you have a few extra dollars, you might enjoy this product.” The typical advertising message you hear really says something more like “Even though you never needed this product before, your friends and family will reject you, you will encounter daily torment, you will discover that you have no value as a human being and that you will probably die if you don’t buy this product right away!”

As competition for your attention gets more and more fierce, you get bombarded with more and more types of ads and more intense ads. It is like standing in the middle of a crowded group of people where each one is yelling at you trying to get you to pay attention to him. As time goes on, the whole group begins yelling louder and louder because each person is trying to out-shout the rest of the group.

Have you noticed an increased intensity in advertising during your life? I remember when grocery companies first used advertising on the back of register receipts. Then, one day, the store added mini-billboards to all of their shopping carts. Then they added advertising to the shopping basket carrels in the parking lot. At the time, those seemed like innovative ideas. Now, they just get lost in the “muck” of advertising. Recently, I was filling up my car with gas in Colorado and discovered that since I was last there, the gas station added video screens at the gas pump so that they could hit customers with a fresh barrage of advertising during one of those rare moments of near silence that many of us ever get. I heard today that a company is now trying to sell grocery stores on the idea of advertising actually printed on the conveyor belts where you set your groceries while you wait your turn in line. I don’t know who will be the first company to actually believe that that will be an effective way to make sales in a spot where customers are already overwhelmed with so many competing messages. At our grocery store, we are already assaulted with messages from tabloids and magazines with headlines designed to suck us in with the shock value. There are ads on the little dividers we put between our groceries and those of the next person in line. Is it really necessary to add yet another layer of mind “noise” to our lives?

I already mentioned that the purpose of advertising is to persuade you to buy something you have never needed before. Did you know that the main purpose of the media is to sell advertising so you have more urgency to buy something you have never needed before? Oh, you thought that the purpose of television was to entertain and inform you? Think again! Television shows are only produced to act as the “sugar” to get you to take the bad tasting medicine. You may wonder how I came to think this way. I have a four year communications degree, having majored in Radio, Television and Film. The principle that television and radio shows exist as a means to get people to watch ads was a major concept in the Radio, Television and Film program.

 

Read Part 2 – Advertising is Just Part Of The Problem

 

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Filed Under: Managing Money, Saving Money Everyday Tagged With: Budgeting, debt

Should We Sell Our House?

February 3, 2010 by 4 Comments

Rebejay from Vancouver, Washington asks:

Is it better to sell the fancy house, pay off all debt and rent until we can purchase a more affordable modest home? We may have enough equity to accomplish it all and not rent. We are tired of the rat race and want to send our kids to a Christian School. We both work and can make the debt payments – just tired of being a slave to them. I want to simplify. We want to pay it all off and have the burden lifted. Also worried about housing market crashing…

 

Tawra: I would say go for a modest house and get out of debt. Even though our culture tells us we should have everything, there is no reason that we need all of the "stuff" that the popular culture says we should have. The reason they says we need the "stuff" is supposed to be to make us happier. Clearly, it doesn’t sound like the fancy house is making you happier, so sell it, and the sooner the better. I would do everything possible to sell it and buy the modest one right away. We have not had good experiences renting and unless you plan to live in the rental for a number of years, renting would mean that you would have to deal with moving twice in a short time period which is exhausting and costly. Once you sell the fancy house, you shouldn’t have a problem getting a mortgage on a more modest one unless you lose big money selling the fancy one or unless your credit has been negatively impacted since you got the mortgage on the first one.

Once you get the more modest home, try to pay the same amount you’re currently paying for your house, allocating the difference in your old payment and your new payment to the principal. If your fancy house costs $1500 per month and your new house costs $1000 per month, pay the extra $500 to principal on the modest house. Make sure you indicate on your mortgage payment coupon that you want the balance to go to principal so that you pay it off faster. You be surprised how quickly you can pay it off over-paying the principal and since you can make your current payments, you can keep paying the same amount and eliminate your debt completely.

I would do everything possible to get TOTALLY out of debt. Most people don’t consider a mortgage a debt, but it is. Once it is paid off, you will be able to use all of the money that you currently use for housing for something else, like the Christian School you mentioned. Not only that, one day, you will want to work less. Hopefully, you will not become disabled, but it does happen and it would be easier to have the flexibility of having no debt.

Regarding the housing market, it is a reasonable concern, but in most (but not all) areas the values will increase eventually even if they go down for a few years. Still, if you pay off your house completely, you won’t have to devote time to thinking about it. Go with your instinct!
Tawra

 

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Filed Under: Featured, Getting Out Of Debt, Managing Money Tagged With: debt

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